Cape Town, November 23, 2009
Monday the 16th of November I have had an experience, which has had quite an impact on me. On my way back to the hostel a man and woman have mugged me. Most of my family and friends probably heard about it already and therefore I’d also like to share my experience on my blog.
For a few weeks I have been member of a target-shooting club, located on walking distance from the school. On the Monday I’d been going to practise and at 4:30 PM I was on my way back to Littlewood hostel, walking on my own for the boy that usually joins me was sick that day. On my way I pass a guy carrying a 1,5 meter stick and I hear him shout something at me. I just ignore the chap and continue walking. He comes running after me though and tries hard to start a conversation, saying it’s unnecessary to ignore people, he would never harm anyone and he's a friend of the community. Sincerely not expecting someone to run after me and to start talking like this I didn’t have a clue how to respond and being worried about the stick he’s carrying, I just decide to be friendly and not to upset him. He’s a coloured man, somewhere in his mid-thirties (I think) and introduces himself as Jarin. He starts an entire conversation, wants to know about me, tells about himself, suggests I should join him to church some day and I definitely needed to meet his sister. She was single again and I made a good chance to hook up with her, he told me. At that stage I thought he was just a weird, but harmless fellow and figured he’d leave sooner or later if I’d just stay friendly. He called for his sister, which joined us. Strangely enough however, she was Caucasian. They ask me where I stay, I tell them I was on my way back to hostel and they ask if they can walk with. Uncertain how to respond I agree and they walk with me up the road leading to Littlewood. Once we reach a more quiet area away from the crowds, the friendly conversation is becoming a little unfriendly and they begin to implement that I am insulting them by walking home that quickly. At that point I finally start to realise what the true intentions of these people are. Obviously too late by then. Jarin demands from me to show my apologies and he starts threatening me. Hitting his stick on the ground he says to me the stick won’t break but it will crack me. He tells me he’s a gangster, member of the “26” gang and shows me his tattoos. He ensured me that his mates could be there in 2 minutes if I’d make him angry. He could protect me however if I’d show my apologies and wouldn’t start to be cheap on him. Eventually I give him my cash (± €30) and fear that he’ll also be taking the watch I’m wearing. To my relieve however he doesn’t take it and Jarin and his “sister” finally leave me alone.
Thinking back on this incident I’m glad I nothing serious happened. The boys at the hostel and the teachers have been very supporting, which was very comforting. It bothers me however how easily they tricked me into this and that I didn’t see the thing coming when I could still prevent it from happening. When looking back now I realise it was so obvious it was going to happen. I’ll just consider it as a harsh “welcome to Africa” and a lesson for the rest of my stay.